Today’s post is going to be a bit more somber than some of my previous posts. I was reading a post on the discussion forum on the site I review sex toys for (www.tootimid.com) and I was struck by this particular post regarding sexual satisfaction. Particular, this poster wrote a bit of an essay on [...]
Archive for May, 2008
Sexual Disconnect
Posted: May 30, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: life, marriage, sex, sexual disconnection
Happy Tuesday night blogging world! Hope everyone had a fantastic holiday weekend! We got together with some of our friends for a BBQ and drinks. As always happens with friends and alcohol, the topic of sex came up (among other things). Big surprise. There were two separate conversations going on at the same time. [...]
Cock-a-Doodle Cock Ring
Posted: May 25, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: cock ring, marriage, orgasm, sex
Happy Sunday blogging world! I had a fantastic weekend! On the wake of my birthday, my family and I had some quality outside time, followed by some HIGH QUALITY sex time with my hubby! Why stop at one Birthday Bang when you can do it the whole weekend. After running around after my boys [...]
Birthday Banging…
Posted: May 23, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: birthday, marriage, masturbation, naked, orgasms, sex
TO ME! Yep, today is my 37th birthday! I don’t feel a day over 36, so it is a good day! Last night my hubby gave me TWO wonderful presents: (1) Season One of “The Tudors” – I am totally addicted to that show! The king is HOT! I would serve in his court any [...]
Tired of Toys???
Posted: May 21, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: marriage, relationships, reviews, sex, sex toys
Last night I had one of my famous “girl’s nights” at my house. This is when my bestest girl buds come over for some food, drink and convo. I am the self-proclaimed “Sex Guru” so at some point, one or more of my gal pals will turn the subject toward sex. Such went last night. [...]
Too Old For Sex???
Posted: May 20, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: age, marriage, relationships, sex, truths
OK, well, you are never TOO OLD for sex, but what are some of the signs that you are getting older when it comes to sex? I was laying in bed with my hubby last night after a very nice session and made a comment about my knee hurting (I have severe arthritis due to [...]
Mistress Mikayla
Posted: May 18, 2008 in Kinky StuffTags: BDSM, bondage, clubbing, flirtation, play, relationships
Do not worry my favorite subbie friends, I have not crossed over to the dark side – I am still firmly a sub – always will be. However, I had a request to discuss my short-lived time working at a DOM/sub club, and therefore, I have to discuss the other side of me (the [...]
Friday Night Fuck Fest
Posted: May 16, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: marriage, relationships, sex, thoughts
Ahhhhh, finally FRIDAY! Do you know what that means? It means no work for a few days, a chance to relax, shop, draw, scrapbook and F U C K! Friday nights are my favorite fuck days because Saturday is notoriously a day of sleeping in (like 7:00 am even) and doing fun things. The weather [...]
Fuckable Items Part III (Mikayla’s picks)
Posted: May 14, 2008 in Mikayla's PicksTags: bondage gear, clothing, furniture, sexy, toys
I am so glad you all are enjoying my favorite picks for toys and items. I have had fantastic responses regarding these items, so I am going to post a few more. I will promise to continue posting these for your enjoyment! Isn’t she a vision in blue????? Or, perhaps you want the whole deal…. [...]
Cumming Home…..
Posted: May 12, 2008 in Ponderings....Tags: BDSM, dominant, fucking, love, marriage, sex, submissive, thoughts
Let me begin by saying, “I LOVE my husband.” I do, I truly do. However……[you knew there was a however coming] we are on separate plains sometimes when it comes to sex. I am not suggesting that he is a bad lover or that he can not satisfy me, cause he can. In fact, he [...]




